Between what you want your kids to do and what they really end up doing or want to do is there always a clash? Could it be that you think to correct the errors you made in the past by trying to guide or sometimes enforce certain rules on them? Well, whatever be the reason i strongly hold the opinion that parents do have the responsibility to guide their kids. But how to guide them positively without adverse rebellion from the kids is really a delicate matter. First of all your personality and example as a parent is essential. if your kids love your personality you become a model of sorts to them then your job of guiding them becomes very easy. Let them see that in all you do they are what really matter, i don't mean drumming it into their ears all the time, i mean actually doing it and making it your second nature. That way they learn to really trust that your advice or counsel is all about them.
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